Ema B

Finding out the truth about my wife, Getting served

After having a vasectomy after our first child, my wife got pregnant 4 years later. I go to get tested to make sure I'm still sterile (I am) and not the father and then decide to test our daughter (not mine). I had to wait till after Christmas to have her served. So I met my sister at my house and we started moving my stuff to her house while the divorce goes through or at least until my STBXW leaves and I get possession of the house. We took four carloads to her house and came back for the rest. My sister felt it important for her to be there for support and as a witness. I also moved the nanny cam into the living room so it could record everything in the cloud. At about 10:45 AM I got a text from the lawyer saying she had been served. I sent her an email saying that I am at the house when she is ready to talk. A couple of minutes later I got a text from my wife saying "Why? Blah blah blah. So I resent the first text and waited for her to get home. She sent several texts and voicemails, They don't mention anything about cheating just how she thought we were working this out and she thought we would sit down and have a conversation before proceeding with a divorce. Playing the family card and how this will devastate the child and our families. How SHE feels betrayed(that was a good one). She was still sharing her location, and it took her 20 minutes before she left work, she then stopped at a nearby Walgreens for a few minutes. The purpose of the stop at Walgreens became clear as a police car pulled in behind her in the driveway. According to the officers she got the police there because she said she was afraid and that we had guns in the house. I showed the officers my empty gun safe and said that I had removed them to another secure location. We went back to the living room and I showed my wife the Paternity test that I had done that showed her daughter was not mine. Her response was denial and disbelief, which appeared genuine. She broke down and cried for about ten minutes. her. I went for counselling with MACIOFONESPYRIXatGMAIL COM to hack her phone for more evidence to divorce her in the court, this did a great job they hacked into her phone but i found out that nothing was on her phone so they hacked into her mac-book, i could not believe all that i saw on her laptop she has all her major text messages on her mac-book, she uses WhatsApp on her laptop also i found out that she was in a relationship with my friend who i call my brother i had full access to her mac-book and also read all there messages and so many they always hang out at a hotel on Sundays.. All I saw was too much for me to keep to myself. My wife is the sweetest and most caring woman on earth and there was no way I would ever imagine her hurting me, it was a shocking moment, I was not happy about what I saw. It wasn't easy to move on, but l'm now free from all her lies,. I never believed this until I saw the evidence, I told her this was the final straw and why I wanted the divorce. At about that time, the police officers reminded me to keep it civil and made their exit after I told them I was leaving soon to stay at my sister's house. When I asked who the child's father was she claimed she didn't know, I asked if there were that many guys she was sleeping with or did she just not know his name. I asked how many times had she cheated on me between pregnancies. To which she said it was just the two of them. I told her that I had said earlier if she didn't tell the whole truth that I was done. I reminded her I also told her that I couldn't/wouldn't raise someone else's child. And that she had better figure out who the real father was because I wasn't paying child support for someone else's baby. She wanted to know what we were going to tell our daughter and I said that was up to her because this was her mess and I wasn't taking the blame or cleaning it up for her. I drafted a couple of e-mails last week one for our friends and family with copies of all the test results and reasons why I was asking for a divorce, the other for my wife with copies of the same tests along with what I knew and things that I had told her previously. I had to run it through my lawyer and make a couple of edits before she signed off on it. I sent copies to all our friends and relatives when she pulled into the driveway this afternoon. Most of the feedback has been one-sided and very colorful. In the end, I told her if she had been truthful we might have been able to work things out.But I couldn't trust a lying serial *******, and I told her if she had gotten her tubes tied instead of me getting a vasectomy she might have got away with it.I told her she needed to get a lawyer so we could move forward and start to heal.